Why we compare yourself with others?
Motivation to win race |
Don’t compare yourself with any one. It is total waste of
time and energy. Life is a competition.
We teach from childhood that life is a competition. But want
to know competition is with………??? Who compete with us????
Example
If you want to be 1st in class, work hard, be
sincere, and at least you will be 1st in class, in college, but it
is not competition. You focus on your study, sincerely then you are 1st.
This impression takes place when you return home after paper
and you parents ask you
Q 1) how was the paper?
You say it was good.
Then they ask 2nd question.
Q 2) how was the paper of others?
You say they attempt bad
Parents say then ok. Good
Here is the mistake of parent that say good. Why good? You
work hard, you was sincere not others then doesn’t matter how attempt others
good or bad. But your paper will be good.
On other hand when you work hard, sincere, struggle. But
after paper you say that it was good. But when ask for others you say they
attempt best. Then parents will say why??
You work hard but why your paper is good and others is best.
Our mistake
We never take individual, we always reference to other
people.
My journey, my effort, my value system, my principles are my
individuals. No need to see other for your progress. Your life, your rules,
your race focus on your progress not waste time to see others, to compare
yourself with others.
Even in real games (race) competition, only one point is
remind to participants……. Do you know?
The only rule given to participants is focus on your
journey. Not to see others. That is game.
In the race of your life you need to follow this rule “FOCUS
ON YOUR OWN JOURNEY”. Not compare yourself with others.
FOCUS ON YOUR OWN JOURNEY
Only this is the big problem that we compare with others.
Need to change our thought.
Only this thought “COMPARE YOURSELF WITH OTHERS” is the only
belief system that is major issue of today’s life. It is the cause of many
problems. It cause corruption. Everyone wants to be rich because he compare
yourself with others. It cause tensions “if we not focus on others then we will
be happy with your life but when we compete he has big house, car etc. then we
got tension”.
We make life success only when we focus on our goal. Then we
work hard to achieve the goal. But when we compare with others then we nothing
can do because out all the time and energy will be wasted to plaining to lose
others that’s impossible, don’t be jealous.
If you think that you will be two steps far ward from all
it’s your excellent thought but for achievement your thought will be pure. And
all your time and energy use to achieve the goal.
Conclusion
If you want to be successful in life focus on your goal and
don’t compare yourself with others.
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